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NO SOCKS for Christmas
How to get Him to give you the perfect dress |
Socks are one of the most popular gifts to give and at the same time, the most unpopular to receive. When it comes to buying socks, the saying, "it's better to give than receive," is so true. What about other clothing? Well, clothing is still one of the most popular gifts, especially clothing that is not based on an immediate need. When it comes to clothing, it's better to indulge rather than fill a need. Buying a dress for a special someone can also be tied to a special occasion you will attend together.
So, what is the BEST way to get your man to buy you an article of indulgent clothing? Start by overcoming men's fears when it comes to clothing purchases.
Here are some tips to help you help HIM to buy the perfect gift.
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| Step one is to address his immediate fear. When it come to buying gifts, men are afraid. |
Why are men afraid when it comes to buying gifts? Men make a risk assessment before purchasing. Does the risk of gift failure outweighs the pleasure of gift-giving? Men assess whether or not they can take that disappointed look of "oh I would never wear that." This reaction clearly outweigh the magic of the moment of joy - "Oh I LOVE IT!" So, to get past this obstacle, it is important to minimize your man's risk of failure by just telling him what you want. |
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| Men would like to be told because men are risk adverse NOT process oriented. |
Men don't care about the experience of shopping. All they want is the result. They want to see you open their gift and have it fit perfectly and be just the right dress.
..and to be thanked and adored for their thoughtfulness. |
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| Does Love = Price? |
That's what men think! Is there any other reason why diamonds are so expensive?
When it comes to engagement jewelry, price = love.
Educate him that a dress for $99 can be just as much appreciated as a dress for $900. Price in fashion can be determined by many irrational factors. |
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| Don't Hint. Just TELL! |
Don't be passive aggressive, hoping that he will magically guess what you want. Just tell him. Remember he just wants results, not process. Tell him that you would love a great dress for a gift.
Tell him your size and give him suggestions. HE WILL appreciate it MORE than you think! If in doubt, just ask him if he would like some suggestions for a gift.
Send him some links to dresses that you would like. Let him EDIT your choices so that he can choose, knowing full well that any one of his choices would be loved. (This limits his risk.) |
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| Finally, if you need socks... |
Go buy them yourself. A dress for the holiday is about being indulged. So let HIM indulge you. |
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